Category Archives: Purely Personal

Hunting season and the usual rambling

As I sit in my office this morning, I have been watching pickup trucks drive slooooowly up my road all morning looking for someplace to hunt. They get to the end of our road, realizing there is no open land up here and turn around. It’s a public road, so I can’t whine about them driving back and forth all day, but I wish I had a right to put a sign at the bottom of the road that says “no place up here to hunt – don’t bother…”  It’s the norm for hunting season, but a little aggravating.

There have already been 2 accidental deaths in Vermont (one right in my town). One was with two young guys out hunting. They had separated and one shot and killed the other, his friend. It’s the most common type of hunting accident – pulling the trigger before you identify your target. The 2nd was a mother who shot her son in the foot while they were hunting. There is no excuse for these accidents. I know a lot of very responsible and respectful hunters. Early in the season, though, it is sadly not uncommon for some trigger happy idiots to just shoot at whatever is moving –  your friend, your son, whatever…

When I lived in Dutchess County (NY State) there was one season with two awful accidents. One was, again, two friends hunting together. One had a great plan for hunting!. He dressed like a deer so the deer wouldn’t be afraid of him. He wore carhartt overalls (tan colored) and a white scarf. He was shot by his friend. Before he died, he made a statement to be try to ensure that his friend did not get charged with his death – something like “stupid me, I was dressed like a deer”.

The other was much more criminal. Two men without legal status to be in the U.S. that had drive up from NYC were hunting on private property, without permission and with some kind of big guns that are totally illegal for hunting. So that’s a pretty bad setup. To top it off, one of them accidentally shot and killed the land owner, who was also out hunting on his property.

When I moved out of NYC in 1999, I had to get used to hunting as it was common where I lived. I even ended up dating two men who hunted and really learned a lot about it and changed my attitude about hunting. I even learned to make a fantastic venison stew from The New Basics Cookbook (lucky me with a juniper bush by my house!). So don’t misunderstand my rants – it is not against hunters or hunting, just against dangerous idiots.

One thing we love about hunting season is the Hunter’s Breakfast from 5-10am Saturdays and Sundays for weeks and weeks at the local church. By 8am it’s just our friends and neighbors all going (the hunters are already up in their tree stands) and very sociable and fun. But this year, it’s too sad to go because one very beloved young man in our town, Luke Palmer, died in a car accident right in the middle of the village on Wednesday. He is always there at the breakfasts with his parents and also at Spaghetti suppers, etc. Luke is autistic, but very high functioning, very loving and challenges us to percieve our world a little differently. I have been getting to know him since we moved here and have always looked forward to learning more about his world from him. Here is his obit, which says a lot about him and how he affected so many people’s lives.

Don’t Forget: www.acehaid.org

Luke Huntington Palmer

I am copying this lovely obituary from the Burlington Free Press (11/18/05) so that it doesn’t get lost forever. With love to Luke, Onnie & Andy.

11/18/2005LUKE HUNTINGTON PALMER — Luke Huntington Palmer, of Huntington, died tragically and unexpectedly in a car accident on Nov. 16, 2005. Born to Onnie and Andy Palmer and brother Tony on April 23, 1987, Luke was a dynamic presence in the lives of his family and friends and will be terribly missed. Luke lived life with great enthusiasm – big plans, a big heart, a great sense of humor. Whether baking bread, snapping photographs, or emailing his many friends, Luke’s approach to all he did took us places we never knew existed. A recent show of his photographs is only one expression of his keen eye. He cooked and baked wonderful food on his own from an age when most kids would not be allowed near the stove. He was most recently working on a hearthstone oven in Martha’s Vineyard with plans for a bakery and “really long baguettes.“ Each of us who knew Luke knows something exciting and unexpected about what we foolishly thought was mundane or boring. No one will ever forget Mrs. Harris, darling. Luke is survived by his parents, Onnie and Andy Palmer, of Huntington, his brother Tony Palmer of Chilmark, Mass., his grandparents, Bill and Betty (Eddy) Lidgerwood of Chilmark, and Melissa Palmer of Slingerlands, N.Y.; his aunts and uncles, David Palmer of Albany, N.Y., Laurie Palmer and Debbie Gould of Chicago, Ill., Frank and Sarah Slingerland of Glenmont, N.Y., Erick McCandles of Altamont, N.Y., Trina McCandles of Groton, Conn., Lisa and Peter White of Tunbridge, Susie Eddy of Chilmark, Bill Eddy and Eileen Walsh of Waquoit, Mass., Carolyn Eddy and Vineyard Haven, Mass., Bruce Adrews of Burlington; his cousins, Dinah and Marcella Andrews, Liza Eddy and her husband, Tim Schaub, Beach White, Erika and Emily Slingerland, Patrick and Lizzie Walsh; Godparents Steve Fischer, Paul Southerland, and Corliss McClean Weston; and many, many special friends and animals from Brewster Pierce Memorial School, Camels Hump Middle School, Mount Mansfield Union High School, Burlington Technical Center, and Vermont and Martha’s Vineyard, Mass. A memorial service for family will be held this week in Chilmark, Mass. A memorial service for Luke’s friends and community will be held in Huntington at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the Huntington Library Building Fund (c/o Colleen Dychton, Library Trustee, 1275 East St., Huntington, Vt. 05462) may be made in Luke’s memory. Local arrangements are in the care of Gifford Funeral Service, 22 Depot St., Richmond.

Daisy, the amazing 11 year old Newfie – watch her run around

I have two beeyoooteeful wonderful Newfoundlands; my “little old ladies.” Surely you have seen many posts and photos of them by now.

Tasha I adopted (rescued, actually) when she was 2 1/2 years old and she will be 12 in December. She is in pretty good shape for her age. She can go on really long walks, can get up and down the stairs fairly well (though it’s harder work now) and can still run around a bit. There are really no signs ofl losing her any time soon – we are so incredibly lucky. Newfies generally live well until about 10 years old.

Daisy is a dog I adopted (well, maybe “stole” is more accurate) from my parents last summer. She will be 11 in January. But there is something amazing about this dog. Considering that their life span is more like 10 years old, this should be a pokey fat old dog by now. But she isn’t. With my new Canon Elph, I made a little video (pretty shaky and I’ll do another better one eventually) this morning showing off her bouncing around in excitement waiting for me to throw her bumper and then running off to get it. Daisy has the fluidity and strength of a young dog still. The video is 6 MB.

Don’t Forget: www.acehaid.org

$450 to exit the plane

I was looking into possibly flying to Harrisburg PA from Burlington. US Air flies there by way of their hub in Philadelphia. The fare for my travel date was about $550 – $600. I considered just doing the one leg to Philadelphia and driving the other 100 miles. The fair from Burlington to Philadelphia was over $1000. It is the same flight that I would be on if I flew to Harrisburg. I will never understand this stuff! Thank goodness for travel agents.

Don’t Forget: www.acehaid.org